Quiet and Silent are Not the Same


I grew up in a generation when children were taught to be seen and not heard. At an early age I learned to bite my tongue and not correct, contradict, or challenge anyone even if it meant I didn’t get what I needed. As a result, I became silent and lost touch of myself.

I remember walking home from school when I was in third grade. The distance was about a mile and during the walk I would hum, sing, and drag a stick across the picket fences along the way. I remember noticing the changes in people’s gardens and talking to the plants and animals along the way. When I look back, I can see that my slow repetitive movement and my connecting with nature helped me cultivate “quiet” within myself.

That was many years ago, but as an adult I still turn to walking and observing the changes in people’s gardens as a way to restore my inner quiet. The slow, repetitive motion of walking silences the chatter in my mind and brings about a profound sense of stillness within my whole being. In that stillness life reorders itself. This stillness is not something I have to do or have to think about, the insights and ordering happen spontaneously the minute I become quiet. I can feel my shoulders drop, my breath get fuller, and a sense of peace and contentment wash over me.

As a child, I didn’t know that my walks home from school were activating my conscious mind or that I was also suspending all of the negative tapes stored in my subconscious. Nor did I know that this process was encouraging my brain to dump oxytocin and dopamine into my blood stream. I just knew that walking in an ambling pace and connecting with the natural world, and myself, made me feel good and happy inside.

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